History of Mr Wrongs
Tuesday, September 4th, 2007
History is there for us to learn from our mistakes, so have I learnt from mine!
That is the million dollar question and the answer with hope anew is YES YES YES!
I did love all my mistakes at their various stages but alas love was never sustained and all ended for different reasons.
The marriage of 7 years left me unhappy, unloved and a feeling the grass was greener on the other side.
The first live in relationship of 3 years was dominated by a jealous and controlling lover.
The second live in left me feeling the most traumatised. After six years of emotional and to a lesser extent physical abuse, he finally left me at my all time weakest after declaring his affair with a 24 year old, the year I turned forty!
The last but not least was by the far the nicest and most loving relationship I have encountered. Unfortunately, that slowly disintegrated because we were quite clearly not on the same page, I no longer wanted to be the provider or his surrogate mother.
Quite an array of interesting relationships, not forgetting the in betweenies, with a bevy of lessons having been learnt.
I know what I want and more importantly I am aware of what I will not put up with and I am not going to accept anything less.
YOU GO GIRL!
So I did and subscribed to an online dating service!
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