The email address was a success and the lines of communication are well and truly open.

The list of names that I am now communicating with has changed slightly and I now definately have my favourites but I am still reluctant to go the next step and go on a date.

I have the man with a complicated life who seems to have a good soul but is desperately in love with the woman of his dreams who has put him on hold while she investigated the possibility of dating her cousin whilst at the same time as declaring she is possibly pregnant with this good soul being the father.

Sounds complicated - it is and a situation that should be entirely avoided. I will state for the record that I do not see him as a potential mate but I am fascinated by his life and the fact is that we have become ‘friends’ through our communication. He uses me as a sounding board as I do him.

However this relationship for want of a better word is not getting me any closer to finding Mr Right.